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Helplessly Looking for Signs
I realize that I’m feeling now like I felt in the first few days of the pandemic: helplessly facing something deadly. Maybe that’s why...
Jan 292 min read


New Ways for Old Holidays
We’ve hosted the holidays for our family/friend group for eighteen years. All the holidays, every year. We enjoyed it and had the house...
Nov 13, 20243 min read


"If, however, you bite and devour one another..."
No one is eating anyone’s pets; we’re consuming each other instead. There are calls from both sides to tone down the rhetoric, however,...
Sep 23, 20243 min read


Is Community Service the Same as Loving Your Neighbor?
“We are racist.” The words came out as both realization and confession. Courtney was reacting to a conversation I was facilitating about...
Aug 13, 20244 min read


Ready or Not: Navigating Life’s Transitions
Somethings are timely because they have a deadline. The sermon is due Sunday morning, ready or not-it’s time! For me, the moving van is...
Jun 21, 20244 min read


Moving Forward
What to take with us, what to leave behind. How do we decide? You may remember that my husband and I are at the beginning of a move that...
Apr 23, 20244 min read


Tiptoeing toward Change
As we sat on the deck of my dear friend’s home on Whidbey Island, over-looking the Sound, we talked about “tiptoeing toward retirement.” ...
Mar 19, 20243 min read


Is the Church a Business?
By Rev. Michael Girlinghouse The social ministry committee of a large, suburban church stood before their council to propose adopting and...
Feb 21, 20244 min read


"We Tried That Already" and other helpful complaints.
“We tried that already. It didn’t work.” I don’t like hearing that. But it’s worse when I don’t hear it, when I just see their eyes roll,...
Jan 24, 20242 min read


How to disappoint people on Christmas Eve.
The family service was over, the next two services had a different tone and a different sermon. The windows next to the parking lot were...
Dec 13, 20233 min read


Just Jesus, Unless...
“We need to get back to Jesus. Just Jesus” the bishop* proclaimed. The singer had just finished a rousing version of “Give me Jesus!” ...
Oct 26, 20233 min read


I'm Not Lost, I'm Exploring!
On the sabbath day we went outside the gate by the river, where we supposed there was a place of prayer; and we sat down and spoke to the...
Sep 20, 20234 min read


Telling Your Whole Truth
There once was a frustrated, alienated woman who had just enough hope to enter a forbidden place and reach out for a chance at healing....
Aug 4, 20233 min read


What to do when people ignore the facts.
My son disagrees with my doctor. I made the mistake of telling my microbiologist/immunologist son about my latest physical. I like my...
Jun 21, 20233 min read


But they said they wanted to change!
“I don’t understand it! They said they wanted to change!” I was in the middle of a conversation with a frustrated pastor in the third...
May 24, 20233 min read


If you want to change them, then...
My Dad bought a remote-controlled TV the moment they came out. It wasn’t that he was too lazy to get off the couch to change the...
Apr 12, 20232 min read


How to put the pieces back together.
What happens when a favorite pottery bowl breaks? In the states, we often feel sad and throw it away. In Japan, they use gold to bind...
Mar 10, 20233 min read


97 Reasons to say "Yes!"
When Joan, my mother-in-law, turned 90 she decided to say “yes” to any invitation. We invited her to go boogie boarding, and she...
Jan 18, 20232 min read


How to Recognize Gratitude.
Remember? It was March 12, 2020, for me. I was in Los Angeles having coffee with a friend, but a couple of things were odd. I picked up...
Oct 11, 20224 min read


Invite me like you mean it!
There’s a song we keep singing. It doesn’t rhyme and sounds a bit whiny. The chorus goes like this: We put it in the newsletter and...
Aug 23, 20223 min read
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